Wednesday, December 17, 2008

SDA Meeting Complete. referral coming


As Colin said, we had our SDA meeting today. This is the entrance to the SDA. It is in a very nice part of the city with lots of old 1700s / 1800s style buildings.











It is next door to a beautiful church, St. Andrew's.










We got there a couple of minutes early and had to wait outside the gate. Claire wasn't too thrilled with that.














Once we got inside, the wait is in a very narrow hallway, with one sofa (and about 15 people). We only had to wait a few minutes.


The woman there was very nice. She looks like Pam from "The Office". She only spoke Russian, but clearly she understood (and presumably speaks) English.

We were only shown siblings. We saw no single children. I think this is partially due to our indicating willingness to adopt 2 siblings. Kind of like when I applied for a ROTC scholarship. I indicated desire to major in math or engineering. The Air Force needed engineers. They would not let me major in math. I think it is more difficult to get siblings adopted, so they will take that opportunity when possible. Can't really blame them. Also, we have heard recently that there are very few single children without significant health problems.

Besides all the kids we were shown looked very healthy. Very minor problems at most. Like astigmatism and myopia. And like most orphans, most had some developmental delay. We were expecting that anyway. Nothing of concern.

We probably overstayed our welcome a bit. We ran about 1hr 15 min. In the end, we had our facilitator call the orphanages to get more information. She will call us with what info she is able to get, and we will make our decision tomorrow (for a referral, that is. Not a final decision). Then, tomorrow afternoon we get our referral and Friday, travel to the orphanage to meet the children.

Yulia (our facilitator) is checking on 3 sets of siblings (2 boys, a boy and girl, and a girl and boy). They all have good information on their file. Hopefully, the file will reflect the situation correctly.

Water situation is slightly better. The girls had cold showers this morning, but Colin's and my showers were a bit warmer than room temperature (so that's probably in the 50s).

Thanks to all for continued prayer. We definitely need guidance in making the right decision for these children and for our family.

4 comments:

Mike Lynch said...

Hi N&N and C&C:

Aunt Stacy writing from cold New Hampshire (though not as cold as where you are!).

Any red-headed kids available? Just kidding - good luck to you and Merry Christmas.

Love,
Stacy and Mike

Nancy Fisher said...

Thank you for your detailed updates and pictures. I feel as though I am on the journey with you. I am praying that God will lead you to the right kid (s)and may the Holy Spirit make it crystal clear who you are to adopt. The children who come home with you will be so loved, prayed over and blessed to be in your family.

Laurie Moore said...

What an exciting time in your life! The children you get will be so blessed to be a part of you family. I can't wait to check back in a couple of days and see how things are going. Take care.

Love,
Laurie

laurie your neighbor said...

We are so excited for you and Nathan and Mitchell are looking forward to meeting their new friends! Lots of love and thanks for posting this blog-- soo exciting to read!
Lots of love,
Laurie, Kevin, Nathan and Mitchell